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The SAFER Question Bank
Prepared, open questions organized by SAFER phase. A planning tool, not a script to read aloud. Start broad, follow the person's lead, and ask one question at a time.
S · Safety
- Before we start, is there anything you need to be comfortable here?
- I want to understand your side of this. Where would you like to begin?
- Tell me a little about yourself, in your own words.
A · Accountability
- Help me understand what happened, in the order it happened.
- What were you thinking at that point?
- How do you see it now, looking back?
F · First Experiences
- Tell me about growing up.
- When did you first notice these thoughts or feelings?
- What was happening in your life around then?
E · Evolution
- How did things change over time?
- What made it feel acceptable at the time?
- Looking back, where could this have gone differently?
R · Review
- Let me play back what I heard. Tell me where I have it wrong.
- What did I miss?
- Is this account accurate, in your words?